Dear Rose, First off. I love you for having your own community, because you are a rockin lady.
Now. How do you tell someone that they need to stop picking up characters so they can live out their fantasies with every female character through those characters? They take all the good male leads, and leave nothing for anyone else who might be interested in those leads. Everytime a female lead shows up that's attractive persay, there goes a application for a character that was romantically involved with the female character canonically.
It's not too bothersome right now, but I have a feeling it's going to thin out chances of picking up players and... get really annoying. The game has only been open for about five days tops. So. What's the polite way of saying; give people a chance to apply, stop picking up male characters to fondle female characters, and give people a chance, yes.