A friend of mine, who I'm not really supposed to associate with much anymore for complicated reasons (namely that he wished to court me, which I was entirely amenable to, but my father was not, and now I am married to someone who is on reflection far better for me, as much as I miss my friend) seems rather apathetic to the whole idea of Christmas. His mother died recently and he lives alone with his cat. He has never had very much money and his home is not very... decorative, to say the least. Do you think it would be inappropriate to, possibly anonymously, send him a parcel of beautiful things to brighten up his surroundings? I worry about him being alone at Christmas.