Oh yes indeed. I used to be into the whole seme-uke thing too, but lately I've been finding myself not caring anymore. Because when I sit down and think about it, guys don't really like being forced into the "female role" of the relationship, eh? A man's a man, afterall, no matter how girly he may look or is portrayed. XP I'm not a man, so I can't tell for sure, but that's the feeling I get.
I'm almost completely over the seme-uke craze. Almost. ~_~