The reason is partially mine. I'm a good friend of Andy's (known him for close to 6 years now), and.. you may or may not remember me, but I go by Neo on the occasion. Perhaps you know me?.. Or at least, you thought you did.
I didn't exactly say "bad things" about you, no; but I'm concerned for another person's privacy. I tried to patch things up with your one friend a while back since you never replied to my IM(s). And the one reply on a certain someone's journal really wasn't very considerate of you, and it was somewhat directed towards me. Feel free to know more? Reply, and I will certainly discuss things with you. I hope I don't come off as an asshole. I wish things did not turn out the way they did. =/