"Well, my thing was more -" Tony sighs. "I had ways of coping, but never realized that my coping wasn't great, or how much I was using it to cope? Apparently that can pop up with asthma stuff. Someone came into work and mentioned they just got a bunch of stuff for coughing and they thought they were fine because they didn't cough. Until their girlfriend noticed how much they were holding their breath to prevent it."
"And - let me know if I'm not caring when I should? I can be stupid like that."