Iomhar wouldn't say that's his read on Tony, and he's pretty sure he's learned to be a DECENT judge of people, so he's listening, pretty curious as to how that possibly contributed to how Tony understands himself. It does seem a little...weird, to be honest.
"So, your hackles stay up because you've not been heard before." He says, nodding. "The idea you're allowed to have some limits. I can see that being exploited by some people, surely. And that's pretty astute, as a summation of things. What did they notice, exactly?"