>>They need more help than you can give them, yes >>I can see why and suspect if I had been brought here after the death I've been told about that I would likely need the same. >>But that is no cause to be cruel about it. >>I think you went a little far in how this was presented >>They have every right to be annoyed with you right now >>I'm not annoyed myself because it doesn't concern me in terms of the details but >>I think you ought to apologize to them and better explain what you meant to have accomplished by this.