That's awesome. I have two asylums over here, too, and they're both extremely inactive. I guess it's 'cause fandom in IJ is just pretty much way smaller than it is over at LJ, so obviously it's not as active. Though I like this site much better for some reason... It feels homey already.
Unfortunately for JDM, guys like Jared Padalecki, Adam Brody and even Orlando Bloom exist... And they all have dark, longish hair and *gasp* curls. He can't win over the curls, not in my book *flails*