Then learn to reply to things specifically addressed to you when they remain private. Ignoring a person is childish, and the fact I had to go to such lengths just to get a ruddy reply from you speaks for a lot, Harry. Luna means the world to me, and as such I will do what it takes to make sure her birthday will be fun for her. This includes being certain she will not feel stressed over our issues that do not include her in any shape or form, and should remain as such.
Act like an adult, and you will get treated like one. Ignoring me while trying to resolve issues so they do not negatively affect my best friend does not an adult action make. So while you are prepared to sit there and judge me for resorting to a howler, be prepared to put on the big boy pants and admit to yours faults as well.