Honestly, I don't see myself getting into the spn fandom any time soon either. I have my corner of fandom staked out, and I'm happy here. I'm not sure I would be able to handle anything more than I do at the moment anyway. Too time consuming. What's been nice about the QaF fandom is that there aren't that many fourteen year old girls with silly questions. Well - there ARE, but most of them never got into the larger communities due to age restrictions on LJ. So it was quite enjoyable after years with Buffy (I belonged to - and still does - a Swedish messageboard run by fans) where you had to, once a month, explain to girls that NO, it was WRONG of Spike to force himself on Buffy in Seeing Red. NO, Buffy wasn't being MEAN to Spike after that. *headdesk*
Don't worry about the mood. ;) I like when you rant!