Warded
Do you enjoy playing the martyr? That is an honest question, because you either intentionally or uncosciously change what people say to fit this narrative where you are the poor misunderstood man.
Just to correct one little point, I never said that ALL arranged marriages are fine. I said that your 9 out of 10 are miserable is more based on your experience than what books and CURRENT (since you seem to like caps so much) arranged marriages indicate, but that MANY marriages are fine. However you refuse to read in an impartial way but read through the bias of your personal experience and state that I said ALL marriages are fine. I'd never say that of either arranged or non-arranged marriages because there is no such thing as all. Something that I made clear when I was told that EVERYONE likes Lily.
To your second point, you didn't say it explicity, but you said enough to it could be inferred. You stated that facts are lies, that statics are useless, that empirical facts do not exist. Everything there says that what I believe in is wrong.
Third, I have no interest in saying anything about you. Unlike you, I don't enjoy being a victim.
Finally, perhaps, before you go into another marriage, you might want to reach emotionally maturity.