1. No. Somethings aren't worth talking about with anyone. Period. Either they're unproductive, self defeating, or otherwise just not worth saying aloud. It's not giving up to realize that something you were saying is better left unsaid, for any reason. And for that matter I didn't give up with my brother either you don't know how that conversation ended so just leave it..
2. Of course it's not instantaneous. But that doesn't mean it's not important.
3. Sometimes pointing out facts is the opposite og helping.
4. I'm not sure what history you're looking at. Maybe muggles are different. But trust me, just because a pureblood says they're happy with their arrangrd marriage and doesn't get a divorce does not mean they're happy. At all.
5. Sure. But those people can get divorced, separate, open the relationship, get counseling, admit something is wrong. ALL things you cannot do in a traditional arranged marriage.
6. We really didn't arrange it. That suggests we thought about it. We didn't. Which I'm totally fine with by the way. We're more a spontaneous marriage than an arranged one. Which doesn't mean we don't get to know each other and find out if we could be in love, but it does give us a whole hell of a lot more options. Take it from someone who was supposed to have an arranged marriage. This is nothing like that.