You can do that with friends who know and understand you. You can't do it with me nor I with you because we don't know each other and the only way to get to know each other is to talk.
Love isn't some instantaneous feeling. Love is something that is born, and is cultivated or dies. Love is not something that happens in 10 minutes.
Liking facts doesn't negate emotions. Liking facts means that I can point out to things that help that love grow.
While I don't want to negate your experience, history and even current cultures suggested that plenty, if not the majority of arranged marriages turned into lovely relationship.
You can have bitterness, resentment, abuse and little bastard children in relationships born out of overwhelming passion. In fact, it is more likely in cases where young people fall in love, get pregnant and have to get married and ten years later they despise each other.
Like it or not, this is an arranged marriage, except that instead of our parents, we arranged it. We are two strangers who need to get to know to see if that love will flower.