That means not wanting to continue the discussion.
No, fairytales are perfect and fake. They are dreams that can never happen. You seem to want the shiny passion, the wonderful marriage, the shiness of it all without any of the problem, but the problems are the ones that bring people together, especially in a situation like ours since we never met before the marriage.
Think of it this way. This is like an arranged marriage of old. Two people marrying without knowing each other. Their marriage can end up being the best or the worst or anything in between depending on what they are willing to do to make it work.