We spoke for a short time, but we seem to have the same interests, we enjoy the same things, we're both aware that we can always divorce if things don't go well. The chances of a marriage succeeding are actually inferior when people date or co-habitate for a long time. There was no reason why not to.
Yes, I'm noticing. I was trying to explain something very logically but he left before even listening to the entire argument or to all the sets of facts that led to him being upset (and not with me). I thought that presenting all the facts without supporting either side would have given him a better understanding of the problem. I was wrong.