I think because you're such good friends, Sly knows you need time. Or maybe he's shy about sex too.
*kisses her cheek*
It's always hard to know, with older men. The ones that aren't creepers seem to be reluctant to act on anything even if they do love you, because they think you deserve someone you can grow old with, not someone you'll have to nursemaid. You know? But guys our age rarely ever have their lives together.