Re: [ Private to Damon/Vlad ]
I'm no psychologist but it's fairly evident that letting go is something he struggles with. Not entirely uncommon though, considering the circumstances.
You do realize that it is unlikely that he will ever be entirely happy with what he is. That is something that none of us, including you however much I am sure you have tried, will be able to help him with? However, as to the rest I believe I can help. Like I have explained to your brother, it will take time and patience and thankfully we have both things in abundance.