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Nate O'leary (tabooleary) wrote in 20somethings,
@ 2022-01-22 18:39:00

Entry tags:

c: beau rosier, c: caleb o'leary, c: jaimeson fitzgerald, c: nate o'leary, d: 2028 01, Ω: owls/texts

Text: Catching Up
Who: Nate to Beau, Jaimeson, and Caleb
What: A quiet night in, Nate decides to text it away.
When: 22 January 2028
Warnings: Tbd
Completion Status: In progress

To Beau: I'm awfully curious if you have any amusing dating stories recently. And perhaps if you'd enjoy going on another one with me.

To Jaimeson: How are things going? Have your twins to be driven their mum to kill you yet?

To Caleb: Did you go live with your dating profile after all? Any bites yet?

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	Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 01:43 am UTC (link)
	She hasn't murdered me yet. Wait until Valentine's Day and she's moved in. I will be dead by that point. She won't have an escape from me. How are you? My life is kids and jobs currently. I can't say I've much of an update. ~~feeling kind of off but 🤷🏾‍♂️~~ (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 01:50 am UTC (link)
	Well, that's something! Maybe she'll have sorted out her periodic escape by then. I've been busier than normal with Eve off exploring the seas, but I'm finding a balance again. Planning another date with Beau for this week. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Re: Jaimeson & Nate

keepingfitz
2022-01-23 02:20 am UTC (link)

I was thinking of seeing if someone in my family might be able to help with adding on a small addition. An expandable room that'll let her have her own office. I think she would enjoy it.

If you need any help, I don't look nearly as good in a dress, but I'd help where I can.

Another date thought is more interesting than talk of work. Things are getting serious then?

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Re: Jaimeson & Nate

tabooleary
2022-01-23 02:31 am UTC (link)

Knowing how large your family is, I'm certain you'll have no trouble finding someone to help with that.

I think we've got things covered. Iris has been stepping up a lot, I think I'll surprise her with a raise soon.

I hope they will, but I'm still not rushing things. I've not loved seeing pictures of him out on dates with other blokes, but I did encourage him to do it, so I'm just taking things one day at a time.

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	Re: Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 02:44 am UTC (link)
	I already know who to call. It's all depending if my home can handle the extra magic. She will love that, because who doesn't love more money? Speaking of. If you hear of anything in my field let me know. I'm looking for better things. When do you think you all will know it's right? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 04:26 am UTC (link)
	I've been keeping an ear out and will let you know if I hear of anything. Who's to say. It could be he's waiting for me to rescind the suggestion that he date around, but there's honestly no rush. I've waited this long, I don't mind being patient as things unfold organically. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 07:57 pm UTC (link)
	I may need a career change. We're in two different stages. You're taking your time. While I've apparently hit warp speed. I'm worried if things don't work out. Oddly, I could see Lucy living next door and co-parenting like a champ. Fuck I'm getting cold feet. As long as you're happy, that's what matters. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 08:26 pm UTC (link)
	Maybe. Got anything in mind? Same to you. You'll let me know if you aren't? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 08:29 pm UTC (link)
	~~I feel like I don't have any skills~~ Not yet. I'm figuring it out. Of course. There's just a lot happening very quickly. In three weeks I'll have a roommate. Then Bells is coming home from school for a break. Then home for good. Then the twins will be born. I feel like I'm spiraling. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 08:38 pm UTC (link)
	Can't say as I blame you, mate. Any one of those is a lot to go through, but all of it at once is insane. I'm a bit curious at the use of 'roommate' to refer to your girlfriend moving in, though. Are you two not actually together romantically anymore? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 08:41 pm UTC (link)
	We are, I just... Don't think she'll be happy here with me. ~~It feels more of a financial transaction.~~ (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 08:43 pm UTC (link)
	That doesn't bode well. Do you think ~you'll be happy with her there with you? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 08:53 pm UTC (link)
	I'll be happy so long as she is. I just... Think that a few pieces of my personality bother her. I don't know how she'll react when she's around it all the time. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 08:57 pm UTC (link)
	I suppose the best way to mitigate that would be to make sure you both have plenty of independent things as well as those things you do together? It's never made sense to me the couples who do everything together all the time. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate keepingfitz 2022-01-23 09:16 pm UTC (link)
	There lies the problem. She's not working yet, I'm floating between jobs, so I'm a little anxious. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Jaimeson & Nate tabooleary 2022-01-23 09:20 pm UTC (link)
	You'll sort it out. Especially if you still think she's the bee's knees ;) (Reply to this) (Parent)

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