That does help. darkladyvamp and I were talking just the other day how we have our own canon and forget about DH that's not canon at all. You also just got me with some canon, why I love fic writers they know there stuff (usually). I didn't know Sirius calls Andromeda his favorite cousin. I haven't reread Order though in about a year so probably something I wasn't thinking about. But you know for me Order is good for all the subtext so sometimes I miss to minor character clues. I am ok with her disliking Remus do to the age and jobless thing. That to me would be very canon. Or maybe she could see it in his eyes that he was willing to leave her daughter and that's just shitty. I love Remus and I understand him but still shitty leaving your pregnant wife. Harry was right when he said that he didn't think his dad would appreciate Remus leaving his pregnant wife and well Remus was right for hitting Harry with a spell when he called him a coward.