Lisa
I don't care about high ground and I don't really care if you like me or not. But my donations to your hospital are not, and have never been, a bid for your affection. There are plenty of organizations I donate to with CEOs that I have never had a relationship with, so don't think this is about my conscience.
Think whatever you want about a decision I made thirty years ago, Lisa. But don't punish your staff and patients for it.