You were Chief of State in my world. Although you did step down so that you could spend more time with your family but you were still involved in things. A diplomatic envoy I think was the title, I don't remember.
That much lines up. I started a Jedi Academy on Yavin. We had our problems but eventually I headed a New Jedi Order. Not everyone trusted us though and that was a problem when we got into the war with the Yuuzhan Vong but you heard about that from Jacen.
Your son....Ben? You only had the one child then? I have to ask.