For starters, you're talking to me like a normal person, not poised on the verge of jumping down my throat. I think we're making progress. We still have a long way to go.
But as for making small talk and being social, I used to be very good at that very sort of thing. When your father's a Lord, you have to learn all sorts of fun things like that. Over the years, I've grown to really dislike being social. However, it's something you need to learn, and not as anyone but yourself.