I do, though now he's more prone to bragging about me than pulling my braids. It's a nice change.
It sounds at least like you have a good staff to help you with these things, even if an invasion is a little more excitement than you'd usually hope for.
Yes, my husband Alistair. If you want to be pedantic I guess it's his country and I'm his queen. We've been married since I took the throne at twenty, though, so I generally count what's his as mine.