The whole point of the group is to acknowledge that we struggle with it. Ignoring it ignores all of that. Even if it's my first urge.
I had so many contacts back home. I could get someone in to see their favorite celebrity, someone they had no normal hope of meeting. Or get them into a restaurant with a waitlist of over a year for the same night. Part of me is glad because it means I don't have people assuming shit about my childhood, but damn if the perks didn't outweigh the cons there.