That's true, we see less rape fic now, although I think that might also (i addition to what you suggest) have to do with the confirmation that snape isn't evil (not that many of us actually thought he was.)
More girl!harry would be excellent. I also think it would be lovely to see some of the classic plot lines that have gone by the wayside as others have pointed out. I really miss novel length stories where harry is still in school.