Newsflash. Having beautiful women fight over you and call you cute buns is not being a loser. It's an embarassment of riches.
Peter Parker should say the wrong thing, and then the women should ignore him and put him down. Yeah, there's a tradition--from Liz Allen to eventually Gwen Stacy and even MJ, for them to turn around---but it shouldn't be a GIVEN.
This makes Peter Parker the fantasy figure, not Spider-Man. Which defeats the whole purpose of having an empathic secret identity. He's not Tony Stark. He's not Bruce Wayne. People should empathize with him becaue he's a loser, not because he has to beat pretty women off with a stick to get some peace.
He's fumbling breaking it OFF, not fumbling trying to approach pretty women.