I know the Hal, Barry and Bruce one is I'm guessing pre-COIE (and so no longer in continuity) but it's panels like that that make Hal's "I never liked Bruce" stuff in "Cry for Justice" suck. The thing is that for Identity Crisis (despite the fact it blows) and it's ret-conned mind-wipe to really have dramatic effect (as every DC writer seems to want it to these days) the JLA folks who did it had to have a close relationship with Bruce. So when they mind-wiped him the actually felt the extra guilt of doing it to someone they were friends (not just fellow adventurers) with. That was the whole point of the JLA "Crisis of Conscience" stoy by Geoff Johns following Identity Crisis.
Except with the invention of the Bat-Dick the only close friendship he has (really close I mean) outside of the Batcrew is with Superman. Even Diana is not that close to him (though Dini did try to re-establish the Zatanna/Bruce childhood friendship).
In pre-Crisis comics it would be no big deal for "Bruce Wayne" to hang out with his friends but in the last decade the real "Bruce Wayne" seems to have no friends (he explicitly would not come to GA's bachelor party like the others). Batman will work with the JLA but "Bruce" will usually pretend he doesn't know them (which has become a running joke with Clark) even when in civilian clothes. I know Identity Crisis is supposed to explain his paranoia and his closing himself off from the others, but it doesn't explain every story (like Black Canary seemingly not knowing who Bruce Wayne really is during the Murderer/Fugitive storyline). Back in the 60s and 70s, for all the camp and bad fashions, the DC JLA really did seem like real friends - with and without the mask. Nowadays they are only when the story seems to call for it (like Blackest Night).