This is interesting. Frustrating point to end on though...
I've a personal interest in this sort of thing, as a few members of my family, old and young, like cross-dressing. It's hard to figure out what their interest is, because of the embarrassment of talking about it. According to my readings online, the ones that are interested in showing off or getting pretty dresses openly, are cross-dressers. The ones who are mortified at anyone finding out, are fetishists. Still not sure where the drag queen fits..