Re: Sam A/Penny R
You just got to take people like they are, not like you wish they were. And how he deals with his stuff, that's just part of that. Ok, wait on him, remind him you're around, but don't need him to mourn or grieve how you need him too, ok? You'll be disappointed, and it won't help him any. You'll just fight.
And you need to concentrate on YOU, instead of on other people. I think other people like you more when you're good yourself.