Re: [gin and tonic]
What would you prefer to keep your mind occupied with, then? If not reading? I can appreciate the desire to find distraction in other things. It's mostly work, for me.
I suppose I don't have to be a secret. You showed me kindness, in listening. Or the written equivalent thereof. You don't strike me as a secret sociopathic killer, although I suppose if you did, that would make you a pretty bad one. Is this the show-me-yours scenario of anonymity?