Re: anon/anon
That makes it sound like you are making it about that person. Find other things than them. Find a way to move on from them. It needs to be about you before it will work. You go out and do something because you want to experience it, not because it will keep you occupied long enough to keep from thinking about them. [...] It is a terrible habit, I know.
Not like that. I mean that they have people to confide in that are closer to them than I am. I could not expect to be as important as someone's fiance for example, and that is okay. [...] You may be surprised to discover that not everyone trusts an anonymous person offering help on these forums. Especially when they are already scared.
They do. The problem comes when they are not aware that they are making that call.