Re: anon/anon
That sounds horrible. I admit I do not know the entire situation, but I am inclined to think they may have something wrong with them. As a natural cheerleader for romance, my normal advice would be to not give up. You may be right that you should stay away in this case. Fear seems like a rather gross victimization.
[...] In my case, I cannot actually be with anyone like that. I am unable to come into physical contact with people, so I have known for years that unrequited affection and being alone forever is my only option. I would never pursue anything beyond friendship with anyone, but I do not think people believe that.