More words help. Because now I get it.
Yeah, no one is saying you're not strong enough to do that, Amy. We know you can. But also, there's enough stretch in the rest of us caring that you can be okay for Si, and you can be okay for David, or Mars, or whoever and you can also not be okay at the same time with one or other of us. It's not being a burden, unless you being there for me or for Si or for Mars is us being a burden? It's not being taken care of. Being taken care of I think of as like, uneven. It's someone who cares and someone who is cared for. I'm talking about where you share the load, rather than put it on someone else. I figure you'd probably do it with Molly, right? If Molly were here. If Si went back in, and you were worried about him. You wouldn't have to be okay for him, which you're totally cool doing, by yourself. That's it.