here's the thing about shit fading for a while? is that crap is always worse when it does come back, right? what? that he's great? nah, not really. he sucks sometimes too. we all do. the important part is, idk, we put each other first? it's easy to drown in our own shit, and it's hard to, like, pull our heads out of our asses and really be about someone else. that's a general 'our.'