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  <title>QaF Coming Out - We are Family</title>
  <subtitle>A QaF Welcoming Community</subtitle>
  <author>
    <email>notreallyme10@gmail.com</email>
    <name>Queer as Folk Fandom Welcoming Community</name>
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  <updated>2009-12-01T03:11:30Z</updated>
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    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:14062</id>
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    <title>My 7 day anniversary!</title>
    <published>2009-12-01T01:26:45Z</published>
    <updated>2009-12-01T03:11:30Z</updated>
    <content type="html">I didn't know about the QaF fandom, InsaneJournal, or even LiveJournal until a week ago. I found you because I was searching for QaF forums, having just started watching the series again and having no one to talk to about it. I first started watching from the pilot in 2002 on SBS tv here in Australia. Believe it or not I haven't seen season 5 or quite a bit of 4. So I have a lot to look forward to!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I posted in my journal about what it was like discovering QaF for the first time. I have also been posting in the Gusmas drabble challenge and having an absolute ball. This is such a wonderful place to be, I really have come home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm a mum of a 1 year old and a 6 year old. I also study part time, but the semester's finished, which is why it was time to indulge in the warmth and colour of my darling boys and girls who I'd missed all these years. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today I just finished watching season 1 for the 2nd time in my life. It was weird watching the last episode again. I couldn't look forward to prom because I knew what would happen. When I saw it the first time I was truly a mess (I was pregnant too, and it was like I was walking around with a few layers of skin missing, emotionally speaking). I couldn't stop crying. The way they played it, I thought Justin had died. Then I had to wait for ages until they screened the next season. It's so different coming to it knowing how it turns out. Less upsetting, but also less deep an experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, it's a joy to meet you all. Another lengthy post! Thank God for the constraints imposed by drabbles ^_^~</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:13798</id>
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    <title>Happy Anniversary!</title>
    <published>2009-11-02T00:18:29Z</published>
    <updated>2009-11-02T00:18:29Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner3.png" border="0" alt="Anv Banner Pink"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Happy Fandom Anniversary to all of our friends who joined us in November!&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='fun_demented' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://fun-demented.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://fun-demented.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;fun_demented&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; joined our little family on November 11, 2008!&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Let's all wish her a Happy Anniversary!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary W"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Normally we remind you of some of the wonderful things that have happened in November but with all the new goodies at &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_scavenger/45583.html#cutid1"&gt;The Fall Contest&lt;/a&gt; and Weather/Vacation fics at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_challenges' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_challenges&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; I &lt;strike&gt;was too busy to make a list&lt;/strike&gt; figured we all had plenty to keep us busy!&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us when your anniversary is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess!&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Thank you to the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the anniversary icons and the beautiful banner!</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:13538</id>
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    <title>Greetings</title>
    <published>2009-10-05T01:21:29Z</published>
    <updated>2009-10-05T01:21:29Z</updated>
    <content type="html">I am a new fan of Queer as Folk, just finished watching the show about two months ago. (I watched it in less than two weeks.) I had heard about it before, of course, but paid it no mind. I caught the UK version on hulu which made me want to watch the US version. Luckily my friend had the first two seasons on dvd. And well, once I started watching, I couldn't stop until I finished it all. I am so glad the fandom for this show is still so huge and vibrant, for newcomers like me!&lt;br /&gt;Like most people I'm a long time user of livejournal, but came here because all of the amazing qaf resoucres. This is the first fandom I have gotten into fanfic with, and I've become addicted to it! I'm really looking forward to being involved in this fandom as I've been a lurker most of the time, but I am trying to change that!</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:13076</id>
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    <title>Happy Anniversary!</title>
    <published>2009-10-04T20:15:23Z</published>
    <updated>2009-10-04T20:15:23Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner3.png" border="0" alt="Anv Banner Pink"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Fandom Anniversary to all of our friends who joined us in October!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;On the 21st the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='besamislabios' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://besamislabios.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://besamislabios.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;besamislabios&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating two years of fandom fun!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary W"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This month also marks the two year anniversary of &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_music' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_music/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_music/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_music&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In October of 2007 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='testdog65' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://testdog65.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://testdog65.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;testdog65&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; posted &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/112536.html"&gt;An important discussion on a most serious subject…&lt;/a&gt; at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='coffeeclub' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://www.insanejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=coffeeclub'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://www.insanejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=coffeeclub'&gt;&lt;b&gt;coffeeclub&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.  So important that it should be revisited!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And last year the mods and writers at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_drabbles' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_drabbles/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_drabbles/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_drabbles&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; were nice enough to bring us a week full of &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_drabbles/tag/challenge+%2387:+masturbation"&gt;masturbation drabbles&lt;/a&gt; :)  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Comment here to share some of your favorite things that happened in October!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us when your anniversary is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you to the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the anniversary icons and the beautiful banner!</content>
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    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:12624</id>
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    <title>\o/</title>
    <published>2009-09-26T22:39:03Z</published>
    <updated>2009-09-26T22:39:03Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Hi guys! *Waves*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well. Like most people, I've been a long time LJ-er while I only joined IJ yesterday. I've only been a fan of the show for a couple of months but I'm very dedicated to it. I actually joined for Queer as Folk when I noticed most of the comms had moved over here and therefore my IJ is decidated only to QAF, I'm glad to have a nice space where I can just put all my love (obsessive of course) for B/J without scaring anybody. It was also easier for me to track IJ posts if I had one myself. So I would appreciate any help or guidance the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_comingout' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_comingout&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; members have for me. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About my person? I'm 20 years old, I'm from London, England and a soon to be English Literature student (lifetime goal of teacherdom.) I have a dog call Jack and way too much interest in slash. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The thing I love about Queer as Folk is how normal it is. It's just life as it is but just with gay men and women. I'm fond of saying love is love. There isn't another word for it. One of my more brilliant thoughts I'd admit but the sentiment is the same. Brian and Justin, Ben and Michael, all the characters, have these great relationships I'm so glad to see many of the writers are still portraying now as I'm just starting out. (I'm a writer and graphics maker.) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, yeah. I'm just &lt;i&gt;really &lt;/i&gt;glad to be here. :)</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:12475</id>
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    <title>Coming Out in the Porniest Month of the Year!!</title>
    <published>2009-09-01T14:16:34Z</published>
    <updated>2009-09-01T22:44:39Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner3.png" border="0" alt="Anv Banner Pink"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Happy Anniversary to all of our friends who joined us in September!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the 10th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='suze_y' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://suze-y.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://suze-y.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;suze_y&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating 1 year of insanity!&lt;br /&gt;On the 24th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='frantic_quest' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://frantic-quest.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://frantic-quest.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;frantic_quest&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating 1 year as well!&lt;br /&gt;Wow, time flies.  Has it only been a year?  &lt;br /&gt;Feels like they've always been a part of our crazy gang.  *smackles*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the 14th it will be &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='kari77' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://kari77.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://kari77.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;kari77&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;'s 3 year anniversary.&lt;br /&gt;(pssst...by the way, did you see those amazing icons she anonymously made me?  *snicker*)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in September 2005 our beloved bitch of Britin, &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='vl_redreign' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://vl-redreign.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://vl-redreign.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;vl_redreign&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, first started squeeing about the love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png"&gt;,&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Need a little angst?  Check out this September 2008 Fanfic Reading Club entry where our porn baby &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='vl_redreign' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://vl-redreign.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://vl-redreign.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;vl_redreign&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; gets us talking about the brilliant epic to angst, bigboobedcanuck's, &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/151954.html"&gt;From a Safe Distance&lt;/a&gt;.  Like red says, it's gonna hurt, we'll cry and wail and gnash our teeth, and somehow she'll make it okay in the end.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Check out this September 2007 entry at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_marathons' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_marathons/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_marathons/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_marathons&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;:  &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_marathons/43263.html"&gt;Marathon 308-314 &amp; the Sex&lt;/a&gt;.  Who among us doesn't love a reason to revisit Mr. Kinney, Cha Cha, Aaaaaamazing and the sock!love of Futon!sex? *fans self*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I pick BJ at noon in the studio, finger fucking.  Yes, we are talking about the &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='bj_action' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bj_action/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bj_action/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;bj_action&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; porny version of Clue:  &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bj_action/23939.html"&gt;Choose Your Own Adventure&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us what your QaF Born On date is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you to the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the icons and banner!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;And the best part about being a September baby?&lt;br /&gt;That means you are a &lt;b&gt;PORN BABY&lt;/b&gt;!!   Born in the porniest month of the year!!&lt;br /&gt;What better way to celebrate coming out in September than stopping by &lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;BRING BACK THE PORN&lt;/b&gt;!!!&lt;br /&gt;(man, I loooooove September.)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://s206.photobucket.com/albums/bb107/the_minx_17/?action=view¤t=maybe742_bbtp_banner_02.jpg" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb107/the_minx_17/maybe742_bbtp_banner_02.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='bbtp_challenge' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bbtp_challenge/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bbtp_challenge/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;bbtp_challenge&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; banner by &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='maybe742' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://maybe742.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://maybe742.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;maybe742&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/center&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:12168</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/12168.html"/>
    <title>Officially Delurking!</title>
    <published>2009-08-27T02:25:45Z</published>
    <updated>2009-08-27T02:25:45Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;Hi everyone!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;My name’s Rachel. I’ve been lurking around insanejournal for a while, and I finally decided to get involved. *throws confetti*&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;I’ve been a Queer As Folk fan since December 2006. I found the show at random through a clip of Brian and Justin on YouTube. I can even tell you what clip it was. It was from episode&amp;nbsp;213 (which I can't find a clip of on YouTube. -_-) where they're driving down the road,&amp;nbsp;discussing Justin's tuition, and Brian offers to pay, but Justin refuses. There was something about their chemistry that hooked me and made me want to know more about their story. I found the series online and within a month I had watched every episode. &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;Little did I know when I saw that first clip that I would end up loving every single character in the show, relating to each of them in a different way. The show’s themes and characters resonated with me so profoundly. It came at a very good time, as I had just moved away from home and had no friends, no family, and was feeling very lonely and depressed. The show inspired me in so many ways, especially in the way I live my life. Emmett’s constant positive attitude really helped me to look in the bright side of life. Brian inspired me to live my life with no apologies, and to not make excuses for doing what I think is right. Justin influenced me to follow my dreams regardless of what others say or think about it (I definitely took his example when I decided on my major in college. My dad is not exactly thrilled with my choice, let me tell you). And Ted has one of my favorite quotes in the entire series, possibly my favorite of all time:&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Since God is Love and God doesn’t make mistakes, then you must be exactly the way He wants you to be. The way He intended you to be. And that goes for every person, every planet, every mountain, every grain of sand, every song, every tear… and every faggot. We’re all His. And He loves us all.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" align="center"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;I'm a spiritual person, and&amp;nbsp;that definitely describes my beliefs perfectly.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;So, I haven’t been particularly involved in the fandom until now (aside from reading lots of fic), but I really want that to change! There are so many awesome people in the QAF fandom, and I really want to get to know you all! I am also an amateur writer, and I would like to try my hand at fan fiction. I make some icons occasionally, and I definitely want to try to&amp;nbsp;do more.&amp;nbsp;Eventually I may try making fan videos as well. I’m also going to start going crazy with the commenting. Basically I want to do a little bit of everything! No more lurking for me!&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;Thanks for reading my rambling mess of a post, and thanks for being so awesome. ;D I love friends, so please feel free to add me! And if you have any tips or suggestions for someone not new to the show, but new to the fandom, I would love to hear them.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;lt;3&amp;lt;3&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;font size="2"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"&gt;Rachel&lt;/span&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:11839</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/11839.html"/>
    <title>Happy Anniversary!</title>
    <published>2009-08-01T16:47:41Z</published>
    <updated>2009-08-01T17:49:33Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner3.png" border="0" alt="Anv Banner Pink"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Fandom Anniversary to all of our friends who joined us in August!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;On August 25th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='bulagirl' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://bulagirl.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://bulagirl.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;bulagirl&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; will celebrate her one year fandom anniversary!&lt;br /&gt;On August 6th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='pendulumchanges' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://pendulumchanges.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://pendulumchanges.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;pendulumchanges&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating two years of fandom insanity!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ETA: On August 10th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='noteverything' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://noteverything.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://noteverything.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;noteverything&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; celebrates her two year fandom anniversary!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Be sure to wish them both a HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary W"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The final episode of Queer as Folk aired for the first time on August 7th 2005.  I don't know about you but I've been wishing for more ever since!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the 17th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='_love_qaf_fic' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/_love_qaf_fic/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/_love_qaf_fic/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;_love_qaf_fic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; will celebrate it's two year anniversary of spreading teh love and good fic!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And on August 25th of 2005 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_marathons' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_marathons/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_marathons/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_marathons&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; was created.  Just this past week &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='noteverything' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://noteverything.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://noteverything.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;noteverything&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='besamislabios' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://besamislabios.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://besamislabios.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;besamislabios&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; have been marathoning season 5.  It's never too late to join in on a discussion there!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Comment here to share some of your favorite things that happened in August!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us when your anniversary is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you to the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the anniversary icons and the beautiful banner!</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:11600</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/11600.html"/>
    <title>Icon Question!</title>
    <published>2009-07-18T00:16:02Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-18T00:16:02Z</updated>
    <content type="html">I've been around 6 months so I probably don't get to clain newby status, so I'll just have to claim ignorant status.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know that some of you have 5000 available userpics.  I have even seen an icon about it(digging the irony of an icon about having icons :D).  But, how does one get 5000 userpics?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am starting to freak out a little, cause I have almost filled my 500 userpics available and I haven't even started to upload the Clusterf*ck goodies!!!  I really don't want to have to delete any of my wonderful, tiny bits o'love!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, if you have them and/or know how I can get them, please let me know!  Thanks as always for any help!</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:11305</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/11305.html"/>
    <title>Coming out the closet</title>
    <published>2009-07-09T00:43:09Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-09T13:57:15Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Hello everyone! Ive only just joined IJ..i know *shockhorror* but ive been over at LJ for about 5 years and never really looked at IJ before..until i got into the QAF fandom and then there was just no way i could be involved and not be here!!So here i am.. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well i should start with how long ive been in the fandom huh? I would say its been about..4-5 long, plentyful and fantastic...weeks LOL. Yes i got into the fandom very late. But never fear there is a reason for this. What's the reason you ask? Well. Im English. LOL. Yes, i was raised on a diet of Stuart and Vince and Nathan, not in fact our dear Brian, Micheal and Justin. I started watching the UK version when i was about...12 i think LOL..My mother is a very open parent and she always let me watch just about anything mainly because she wanted me to know the truth about things rather than thinking something compleatly stupid and untrue. But yes, fabulous Pittsburgh was Magical Manchester for me until not long ago..although i have actully been to Cannal street where they filmed the english version and its nice..they really have a cannal with a boat and everything lol.. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway, how i really got into the REAL version (as i like to call it) of QAF is not that brilliant lol. I was in HMV and looking through the sale DVD'S when i spotted the title 'Queer as folk'. Remembering mine and my mothers love of the tv show i picked it up and came face to face with the beauty that is Brian Kinney and Justin Taylor. And were they ever beautiful. I debated for a while whether i should buy the set but really i was already sold. They were just too HOT. So i brought them back home and started my pleasureable viewing. Drooled over Brian half naked and dripping wet. Was fasinated by teh sexing between Brian and Justin, got pissed off at alot of people, smiled and squeed like a good fangirl when Justin and Brian dance, cried when Justin was hurt. Felt my heart crack over Brian screaming over Justin. Felt my heart compleatly shatter at Brain covered in blood and crying....typical reaction to the first season then LOL. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After that it was the second season, then i had to have the third season and i went through much the same thing with those as well. Strangely enough even though the show finished 4 years ago about we only just got season 4 on dvd and season 5 isn't out till September..trust me im dying inside LOL. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyway this is getting kind of long so ill end with ICONS!!! I just posted a few over at my journal...I decided to make some 'Tweak says' icons because..well because that thing is awsome and there is a hell of a lot of QAF love up there! Please feel free to take them...and also feel free to freind me! Im brand new here and i dont have any freinds lol, im a loner all on my tod! So i would appreciate the company!! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TEASERS: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i287.photobucket.com/albums/ll123/bexylou89/brianandjustinglow.png"&gt; &lt;img src="http://img34.imageshack.us/img34/8391/tweak4.png"&gt; &lt;img src="http://i287.photobucket.com/albums/ll123/bexylou89/Tweaksays.png"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;FIND THE REST HERE: &lt;a href="http://pink-twinkie.insanejournal.com/964.html"&gt;http://pink-twinkie.insanejournal.com/964.html&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:11199</id>
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    <title>Damn you prudes at Photobucket!!!!</title>
    <published>2009-07-07T17:21:03Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-08T12:34:46Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Let's say I wanted to upload and post some pics.&lt;br /&gt;You know, pics of say...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;this &lt;img src="http://www.insanejournal.com/userpic/316169/59176"&gt;, &lt;br /&gt;or this &lt;img src="http://www.insanejournal.com/userpic/333586/59176"&gt;,&lt;br /&gt;or even this &lt;img src="http://www.insanejournal.com/userpic/501357/59176"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the past, I have noticed the Photobucket isn't a big fan of asses.  Or pubes.  Of the buttsecks in general.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any thoughts on where a fan could upload some of these?&lt;br /&gt;A site more friendly?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(and no, this has nothing to do with the clusterfuck this weekend.  nope, nope, nope.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Edit:  The consensus is if you are uploading icons, just link to your IJ user pics.&lt;br /&gt;If uploading caps or bigger pics, use Imageshack, 4shared or your LJ scrapbook.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL OF YOUR HELP!!!</content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:10968</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/10968.html"/>
    <title>Time to Celebrate July Anniversaries!!</title>
    <published>2009-07-01T14:11:38Z</published>
    <updated>2009-07-02T15:03:58Z</updated>
    <category term="anniversaries"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner4.png"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Fandom Anniversary to all of our friends who succumbed to the love in July!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Including &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='michira_70' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://michira-70.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://michira-70.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;michira_70&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; who is celebrating one year of insanity with us on July 4th.&lt;br /&gt;*tosses traditional one year gift of paper confetti all over her*&lt;br /&gt;and &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='amelialourdes' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://amelialourdes.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://amelialourdes.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;amelialourdes&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; celebrates her sixth year on July 11th!&lt;br /&gt;*Hmmmm...traditional 6 year gift are iron and candy*&lt;br /&gt;*tossing iron seems painful*&lt;br /&gt;*tosses M&amp;Ms all over her*&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png"&gt;,&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/July08W.png"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/July08B.png"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was four years ago we all fell in love with talking cars, first admired handcuff adaptable art tables and had a sudden craving for candied walnuts.  Yes, on July 6th 2005,  the icon inspiring fandom classic, &lt;a href="http://community.livejournal.com/bjfic/132191.html"&gt;Framed&lt;/a&gt; by Plumsuede was posted.  Hmmm...think it's time to read that again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On July 6th 2006 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_challenges' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_challenges&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; was started.  It's still going strong bringing us great challenges such as the  &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/88559.html"&gt;Icon Challenge&lt;/a&gt; and the &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/125902.html"&gt;Challenge in Two Parts&lt;/a&gt;, just to name a couple.  I can hardly wait for this month's &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_challenges/143858.html#cutid1"&gt;Clusterfuck Challenge&lt;/a&gt;.  *happy squee*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And last year, &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_icons' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_icons&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; had the brilliantly inspired theme "Bare Chests."  Don't we all need more bare chested icons?  *grin*&lt;br /&gt;Check out these by:  &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/61139.html"&gt;brianslave68&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/61469.html"&gt;pfodge&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/61785.html"&gt;nyxa&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/61980.html"&gt;nerilka24&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/62625.html"&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_icons/63980.html"&gt;silentlywrecked&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us what your QaF Born On date is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you to the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the icons and banner!</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:10618</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/10618.html"/>
    <title>Setting up a header in your journal</title>
    <published>2009-06-24T22:28:42Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-24T22:28:42Z</updated>
    <category term="layouts"/>
    <category term="banners"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='maxymama' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://maxymama.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://maxymama.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;maxymama&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; asked &lt;a href="http://maxymama.insanejournal.com/12967.html"&gt;in her journal&lt;/a&gt; how to set up a header, and &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='outlander' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://outlander.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://outlander.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;outlander&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; hinted that it would make a good post for this community. &lt;br /&gt;So I'll just try and give the explanation a shot with my profound half-knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;Beware:&lt;/u&gt; the following instructions are from the perspective of a free account user. But there are probably one or two things that will work the same in paid accounts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Go to your user info page -&amp;gt; choose "Customize journal"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- on the "Basics" tab choose "S2"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- go to the "Custom options" tab&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- in the "Margin size on the top of the content area" box you put the height of your header in pixels, for example "300px" (without the quotation marks)&lt;br /&gt;--&amp;gt; this should shift your journal content down so the background picture is visible at the top&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- put the URL of your image in the "Background image URL" box&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- choose "Don't repeat" in the "Background image repeat"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- put the "Background image scrolling" on "Fixed"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Save changes (at the bottom of the site)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;************************************&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There could be a problem with the visibility of the background picture if you use the navigation strip. It may cover the top of your picture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To avoid that you can just forget everything I said before and instead put the following in the &lt;br /&gt;custom stylesheet box at the end of the page:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;body {&lt;br /&gt;margin-top: 300px !important;&lt;br /&gt;background-image: url("&lt;a href="http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/example.png"&gt;http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/example.png&lt;/a&gt;") !important;&lt;br /&gt;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;&lt;br /&gt;background-position: center 46px !important;&lt;br /&gt;}&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;Explanation:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;margin-top: use the height of the header pic in pixels&lt;br /&gt;background-position: defines the position of the background picture; you can use "left" or "right" or "center"; the number is used to shift the picture down, so it won't be covered by the navigation strip.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hope this was in any way helpful and didn't just manage to confuse everyone. lol&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Feel free to ask if something is unclear or to correct any mistakes I included, and to add information that fits the topic as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks. :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:10395</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/10395.html"/>
    <title>greetings everyone.</title>
    <published>2009-06-22T15:50:47Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-22T15:51:23Z</updated>
    <content type="html">&lt;p align="justify"&gt;I just wanted to say hello in this community and to IJ in general. I'm an old fandom fan I guess you could say. I joined in June of '03 and I haven't really stopped since then. I remember hearing all about Qaf when it first came out but I was watching so much TV at the time I couldn't keep up. Not to mention, I was in high school so I had a lot of homework and that's where my concentration was going.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, when I graduated from high school in the summer of '03, the first thing I did was marathon Qaf and I was immediately hooked. Like I said, I've never really let go. As far as my online life is concerned, it revolves around 2003-2005. Sure, I'm interested in other television shows now, catching up on old ones that I've never seen, and involved in other side projects. But nothing is going to mean more to me than the Queer as Folk community. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I remember during what I like to call "The Great Schism" when people separated from LJ to IJ, I stayed with LJ because that's where my fandom friends were. I've known them since '03 and though they had moved on and I hadn't, I still liked being part of their lives in that type of a forum. I hadn't participated in fandom in a major way then. I had written and done some icons but I hadn't fought with anyone or had disagreements with anyone. I just wanted to stay somewhere I felt comfortable and that is and always will be LJ for me. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That said, I'm probably more involved now in fandom more than I have ever been which is strange since the show ended four years ago this August. I write, I icon, I travel, I go to events, etc. and it'd be nice to know people who are still interested in those things. That's why I'm over here now and writing this already ridiculously long introduction (apologies). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Examples of things? Okay.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• My LJ journal is &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• I have Gale icons &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/360587.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and Randy icons &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/333650.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• Writing a story and the first chapter is &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/266181.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; with the second chapter &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/363848.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• I'm knee-deep in nostalgia and have posted nostalgia about fic &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/321795.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/347122.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• And &lt;a href="http://amelialourdes.livejournal.com/364516.html"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; is how I'm feeling right now. :) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, feel free to add me and I'm looking for people to add too. No harm in double journaling it as I like to say! Thanks for allowing the rambling.</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:10186</id>
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    <title>just can't get enough</title>
    <published>2009-06-20T03:38:21Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-20T03:38:21Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Hello, all you QAF fans.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been around since 2003.  I first heard about QAF from one of my assistant managers.  She tried to pursuade me for a year to watch.  Kicking and screaming she sat me down on a weekend with part of season one.  By the end of the weekend I was through the first season and hell bent on seeing season two.  From there I subscribed to Showtime so I could get my fix.  Season three had started. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;OMG - then I googled Queer As Folk for fun and found fan fic.  My world turned upside down.  I've been an avid reader since that time. I joined Live Journal in 03 and was hooked on the BJ/LJ.  Of course, I've been hooked ever since.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've found the reasons are different for everyone.  Mine is I just fell in love with the idea of Brian and Justin.  I loved them together.  No, I didn't personally want to DO either of them.  However, I certainly loved them doing each other.  That is my kink.  LOVE them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me, I loved them both.  There is a soft spot in my heart for them. I can't seem to shake it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;LJ doesn't seem to fuel my fire anymore.  People have moved on.  Me, apparently not.  The lovely alicesprings tells me I will be welcome here.  *crosses fingers*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not a writer.  I do love graphics.  I knew nothing about photoshop before this fandom.  Ah, what it's given to me is priceless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I'll shut up.</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:9840</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/9840.html"/>
    <title>Mood Theme don't showing</title>
    <published>2009-06-19T19:16:18Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-19T19:16:18Z</updated>
    <category term="layouts"/>
    <category term="questions"/>
    <content type="html">I have a problem. &lt;br /&gt;I downloaded the Qaf Mood Theme with the animated pics yesterday. &lt;br /&gt;It's the Mood Theme &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='firehead30' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://firehead30.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://firehead30.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;firehead30&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; uses.&lt;br /&gt;I followed all the steps to install it, but the stupid pics don't show, just empty squares. I checked it four times, but I can't find the problem.&lt;br /&gt;I asked &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='paddies' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://paddies.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://paddies.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;paddies&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, she thinks that maybe something with the html could be wrong.&lt;br /&gt;I have no fucking clue. Is anybody able to help me?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks in advance</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:9521</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/9521.html"/>
    <title>That thingy at the top...Oh you know what I mean...</title>
    <published>2009-06-16T13:48:03Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-16T13:48:03Z</updated>
    <category term="layouts"/>
    <category term="questions"/>
    <content type="html">You know that bar some people's layouts have at the top of the page?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It shows an icon and buttons for logging out or going to your friends page?&lt;br /&gt;I think it says Powered by Insane Journal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anywho...How do you add that to your layout?&lt;br /&gt;Heck, is it something you can add to your layout?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep in mind, this is me.  So any instructions would have to be in short sentences with tiny little words.  Stick drawings on cocktail napkins may help.  Techno isn't always my friend.  &lt;br /&gt;*snort*</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:9254</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/9254.html"/>
    <title>It's like finding the show all over again!</title>
    <published>2009-06-03T23:35:33Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-03T23:35:33Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Hello everyone!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just found my way here today, and after only a few hours of "lurking," have decided to just say hi. It seems like a friendly bunch - not to mention so, so talented! I've really enjoyed all the icons and fiction and everything else I've found here so far.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few things about me (most are QaF-related):&lt;br /&gt;-I found QaF on TV in season 5, through one of my coworkers.&lt;br /&gt;-Now, I've seen all the episodes about 4,000 times each!&lt;br /&gt;-I am a high school English teacher.&lt;br /&gt;-I love to beta. I've done it in another fandom, and I truly enjoy it.&lt;br /&gt;-I am Canadian.&lt;br /&gt;-I am a Justin-lover.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm sure there's a lot more, but I don't want to bore anyone! If you have any questions, just ask. I'm going to start working on friending people; Everyone should feel free to friend me, as well!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for this lovely welcoming community. I look forward to having a lot of fun here!</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:9136</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/9136.html"/>
    <title>June Anniversaries!</title>
    <published>2009-06-01T14:05:30Z</published>
    <updated>2009-06-01T14:05:30Z</updated>
    <category term="anniversaries"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner3.png" border="0" alt="Anv Banner Pink"&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Anniversary to all of our friends who joined us in June!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;On the 15th of June &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='firehead30' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://firehead30.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://firehead30.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;firehead30&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating her QaF Fandom 3 year anniversary!&lt;br /&gt;On the 25th of June &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='jule1122' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://jule1122.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://jule1122.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;jule1122&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating her QaF Fandom 7 year anniversary!!!&lt;br /&gt;On the 28th of June &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='brianslave68' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://brianslave68.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://brianslave68.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;brianslave68&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating her QaF Fandom 3 year anniversary!&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Be sure to take a minute to wish them all a happy anniversary!&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary W"&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On June 24th of 2001 episode 122 aired for the first time.  Ack!  Imagine the stress of watching the Prom episode and then having to wait all those months for more...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On June 5th of 2006 this fandom got hooked with no hope of rehabilitation over at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_crackfic' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_crackfic/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_crackfic/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_crackfic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2006 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='xie_xie_xie' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://xie-xie-xie.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://xie-xie-xie.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;xie_xie_xie&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; posted the first chapter of &lt;a href="http://xie-xie-xie.insanejournal.com/2479.html#cutid1"&gt;Plans&lt;/a&gt; which would later become the first story in her Only Time series.  Now is a great time for a reread &lt;strike&gt;(you must be living under a rock if you haven't read this one yet)&lt;/strike&gt; because rumor has it that she is going to post a new chapter soon!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2007 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='youbetterwiseup' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://youbetterwiseup.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://youbetterwiseup.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;youbetterwiseup&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; posted &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/99497.html"&gt;this popular discussion&lt;/a&gt; over at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_coffeeclub' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_coffeeclub&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.  When &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_coffeeclub' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_coffeeclub&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; made the move over to IJ the wonderful &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='testdog65' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://testdog65.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://testdog65.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;testdog65&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; took the time to move all the old discussions over... but they haven't gotten much love here.  Lets all breath some new life into this old conversation!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And finally, if you want to feel all warm and cozy head over to &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_scavenger' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_scavenger/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_scavenger/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_scavenger&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and check out the &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_scavenger/16069.html#cutid1"&gt;Cuddle Day entries&lt;/a&gt; from June of 2008! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We'd love to hear about some of your favorite things that happened in June, just comment here! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us when your anniversary is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you to the lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; for the anniversary icons and the beautiful banner!</content>
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  <entry>
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    <title>trivia contest &amp; free perm accounts</title>
    <published>2009-05-19T22:57:18Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-19T22:57:18Z</updated>
    <content type="html">Xie and I are thinking of extending the deadline for our &lt;a href="http://happier-bunny.insanejournal.com/343405.html"&gt;TRIVIA CONTEST&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://happier-bunny.insanejournal.com/344546.html"&gt;Come vote so we can decide before the deadline!&lt;/a&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:8514</id>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/8514.html"/>
    <title>"I'm coming out..."</title>
    <published>2009-05-19T18:13:52Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-19T18:13:52Z</updated>
    <content type="html">HI!  So I *finally* decided to de-lurk, after bumming around on here for quite a while.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was first introduced to QAF in 2005; with episodes 113 and 114, so that was interesting.  I've been reading fic and everything else on here and BJFic for a few months.  I have also started to try to write some fic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is just my short "coming out" story, if you want to know more, the entire story is posted on my journal! &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='etextraordinary' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://etextraordinary.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://etextraordinary.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;etextraordinary&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would love to make some new friends here because everyone seems so lovely!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kisses&lt;br /&gt;ET</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:8256</id>
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    <title>QUESTIONS QUESTIONS QUESTIONS</title>
    <published>2009-05-14T04:11:24Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-14T04:11:24Z</updated>
    <category term="friending"/>
    <category term="questions"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;Outing myself further: I’m an analytical control freak like Brian, with big bold painterly splashes of Justin’s wide‑open heart.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;After several comments that people couldn’t access my IJ, I changed the setting to “registered users.” That was a big step for me, having come from MySpace and the eternal spammage.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="ljcut" text="My first cut"&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;I’ve been exploring the QAF Fandom since I created my IJ on May 8. I recognized a lot of the same people all over the fandom which made me more comfortable, but it took a lot of time and I have a bunch of other interests. So, how does everyone manage to participate in fandom and still maintain balance?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;I noticed that a lot of QAF communities cross over, which is confusing as hell! It’s hard to figure out what to post where. And there’s all these rules. *doing the Ted vibrating head thing from episode 118*&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;“Friending” in fandom is radically different than friends on MySpace. There, I have a tiny handful of friends I keep up with at least weekly and we are connected by personal interests, not fandom. What exactly is involved in mutually “friending” someone here? I noticed in my explorations that some people have 50 or more mutual friends!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;What’s the protocol/etiquette for responding to comments to something you’ve posted? It seems rude to me not to respond to each person; it’s like someone at work saying “hello” to you in the hall and ignoring them. However, I don’t usually have 20 people at work say hello to me every day! Do you know what I mean? *feels silly*&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;I’m feeling a little overwhelmed by this QAF fandom stuff. I really do want to keep this fun, as I’ve been advised by several people.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:7952</id>
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    <title>*Takes a deep breath* Introducing myself.</title>
    <published>2009-05-09T02:20:57Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-09T02:20:57Z</updated>
    <content type="html">I'm as breathless and excited as Justin and Brian on the night they met under the streetlamp.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am one of those women who discovered QAF after the show ended.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over a year ago, I connected with my Friend at MySpace and we've been discussing QAF ever since. I've never discussed QAF with anyone else until now, although my Friend's been encouraging me to do so. My Friend no longer has a reliable Internet connection because of financial reasons. I'm just now wading into the deep waters of QAF fandom.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My Friend introduced me to QAF fanfic. First, fanfic dating back to writers who experienced QAF as it was happening. Then, to writers who (like me) experienced QAF after the series ended. There's such an amazing difference!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anyhow, I don't have "hate" for any of The Folk. I love all of them, but they all get on my nerves at times! Just like RL.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me, the QAF family is the closest thing I've ever seen to my RL.</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:7839</id>
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    <title> Lj vs IJ username and comm name coding update</title>
    <published>2009-05-01T17:17:10Z</published>
    <updated>2009-09-01T05:21:11Z</updated>
    <category term="html"/>
    <content type="html">LJ has changed the url for the little icons that come before the usernames. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This change made the little trick for coding LJ vs IJ usernames that I had posted here no longer work correctly. However, I have now updated that post, correcting the codes to a default way that accounts for the newer urls, and should continue to work well even if they make other small changes in the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Long story short, &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/1152.html" target="_blank"&gt;if you want to know how to make LJ usernames appear as LJ usernames on IJ and vice versa, or how to use a nickname but have it direct properly, you can learn how in this post&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;So, if you saved that page in the past for later use, you'll need to resave it now that it's been corrected if you want to have the functional code.  And if you've already used it, older posts need to be edited accordingly in order to appear properly&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry for the inconvenience, and happy coding!</content>
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  <entry>
    <id>urn:lj:insanejournal.com:atom1:qaf_comingout:7633</id>
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    <title>Happy Anniversary to our friends who joined us in May!</title>
    <published>2009-05-01T15:01:48Z</published>
    <updated>2009-05-01T15:01:48Z</updated>
    <category term="anniversaries"/>
    <content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/Anniversary_banner3.png" border="0" alt="Anv Banner Pink"&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because we live to celebrate the love, we're starting a new tradition of &lt;font color="#008080"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Anniversary Posts&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt; here at &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_comingout' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_comingout&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every month we will celebrate members of our fandom who came out to play with us in that month. Or at least the anniversaries of those who tell us theirs. *grin* We'll also be reminding you of some of the other wonderful fandom history that took place in that month. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;On the 17th of May &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='flamencanyc' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://flamencanyc.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://flamencanyc.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;flamencanyc&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is celebrating her QaF Fandom 4 year anniversary!&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Be sure to take a minute to tell her how happy we are she came out to play!&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnB.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/HappyAnnW.png" border="0" alt="Happy Anniversary W"&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="cutid1"&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2005 LJ's triciaqaf posted her story &lt;a href="http://triciaqaf.livejournal.com/14225.html"&gt;Painting&lt;/a&gt;. The first chapter went up on May 3rd and she spent the rest of the month posting continuations... but you don't have to wait all month, you can read it now! Yum! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2006 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_bunnies' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_bunnies/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_bunnies/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_bunnies&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; was created over at LJ and then later moved over here to IJ. Who wants to tackle the first bunny ever posted in the community?  On May 18th &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='happier_bunny' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://happier-bunny.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://happier-bunny.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;happier_bunny&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; posted this: &lt;i&gt;I want Brian and Justin to have nasty neighbors who are mean to Brian and Justin has to comfort him. (comfort should probably = blowjob and shower sex).&lt;/i&gt;  It's never too late to write for a bunny!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2007 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='bj_action' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bj_action/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/bj_action/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;bj_action&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; held a challenge for the theme Frottage with Hair Play. The fics went up on May 26th, check out the results &lt;a href="http://www.insanejournal.com/tools/memories.bml?user=bj_action&amp;amp;keyword=Theme+%233:+Frottage+w/+Hair+Play&amp;amp;filter=all"&gt;HERE&lt;/a&gt;! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2008 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='flamencanyc' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://flamencanyc.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://flamencanyc.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;flamencanyc&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; opened &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_alumsnnews' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_alumsnnews/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_alumsnnews/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_alumsnnews&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. May is a busy month for &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='flamencanyc' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://flamencanyc.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://flamencanyc.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;flamencanyc&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also in 2008 &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='xie_xie_xie' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://xie-xie-xie.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://xie-xie-xie.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;xie_xie_xie&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; took to &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qaf_coffeeclub' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/community.gif' alt='[info]' width='16' height='16' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qaf_coffeeclub&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to discuss &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_coffeeclub/141466.html"&gt;The big beautiful dick of Brian Kinney&lt;/a&gt;. You can't miss this one! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We'd love to hear about some of your favorite things that happened in May, just comment here! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already, please go tell us when your anniversary is &lt;a href="http://asylums.insanejournal.com/qaf_comingout/7355.html"&gt;in this post&lt;/a&gt;. If you aren't sure of the exact date &lt;strike&gt;make one up&lt;/strike&gt; give us your best guess! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The lovely &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; not only created the icons above, but these to help everyone celebrate: &lt;a name="cutid2"&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2000Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2000 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2000W.png" border="0" alt="May 2000 W"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2001Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2001 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2001W.png" border="0" alt="May 2001 W"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2002W.png" border="0" alt="May 2002 W"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2002Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2002 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2003W.png" border="0" alt="May 2003 W"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2003Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2003 B"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2004Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2004 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2004W.png" border="0" alt="May 2004 W"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2005BK.png" border="0" alt="May 2005 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2005W.png" border="0" alt="May 2005 W"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2006W.png" border="0" alt="May 2006 W"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2006Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2006 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2007W.png" border="0" alt="May 2007 W"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2007Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2007 B"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2008Bk.png" border="0" alt="May 2008 B"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll214/outlanderjulie/May2008W.png" border="0" alt="May 2008 W"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Beautiful banner and icons made by &lt;span class='ljuser' lj:user='qafmaniac' style='white-space: nowrap;'&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/profile'&gt;&lt;img src='http://www.insanejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif' alt='[info]' width='17' height='17' style='vertical-align: bottom; border: 0;' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href='http://qafmaniac.insanejournal.com/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;qafmaniac&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. Thank you!!&lt;/i&gt;</content>
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