As you know, I only write drabbles and an occasional porny thing, so I can only answer from that perspective.

My first instinct is to defend anything I write if someone questions me and frankly, I probably get a little upset in the beginning. But...I *always* always thank anyone who comments, because I do appreciate any comments I get. They mean so much more than I think they will, *every* single time, even after hundreds of drabbles.

I think you're on the right track to offer your perspective to anyone that gives you criticism...I think that's what I'd do. Then, depending on their reaction to that, you could offer to talk more in email or PM, but I'd bet most people would be satisfied with your response.

Personally, I *WANT* more criticism. I've "complained" about this before to a few people. Sometimes I feel like people either tell me everything I write is really good because that's what they always do *or* they just don't say anything at all if they don't care for it. I would *LOVE* to know specifically what works and what doesn't, even if it's just a drabble. But...for whatever reason, many readers choose not to do that.

Interesting post!