Well it's perfectly fine to be realistic. That doesn't mean you're not fun. It just means you find different sorts of things to be fun.
Madly happy? Doesn't that sound wonderful? *smile* Bethen, easy love is a fantasy, but love itself isn't. Things won't always be easy, but that's part of what makes it worth having. I've been in love before and even though things ended.... I don't regret a minute of it.