... Knowing what you don't want is just as important Jill.
I don't know about your friend in Highever, but it seems to me that sometimes love stumbles upon you and other times you must look for it. And no man is perfect, really. No woman is either. But when you care for someone then whatever imperfections they have don't matter.
Well no of course a man isn't just going to appear, but we're surrounded by men here and I'm sure we'll come across others in our travels. Even if there's danger at the end of the mission. Why wouldn't a man see you as a woman?