Well, thanks for the welcome even though it took me so long to acknowledge it. I have a question for those of you who are active here:

Do you ever find yourself starting a physical fight with your significant other or spouse just because the pain is ecstacy and the sex afterwards is even more so?

I am slightly worried I'm just strange so I'm seeking other people who have this odd pattern of behavior as well. I have never been the victim of spousal abuse just so you know and I don't have that victim syndrome thing where I seek situations to play the victim....I just really like fighting and the sex that inevitably follows a fist fight with my husband.

Am I strange?