Fenris is actually one of the few characters I'm briefly familiar with, so unless he's as hateful of elves as he is of mages I don't think he's the one I'm thinking of. It's possible I've just ascribed the general anti-elves attitudes I've picked up on to a specific character that doesn't necessarily exists as such.
Haha, lovely. A century of courtship before the marriage is cool, right Isabela?