✉ All of that stuff is superfluous. ✉ Paperwork, courthouses. ✉ You can easily have someone else deal with all of that. ✉ The issue that would be the most concerning would be the lack of a good example. ✉ And what was taken away from the one that was had. ✉ I mean, things like that can sour someone's perspective entirely. ✉ Maybe even make something that official seem like a trap? ✉ You know, you can just go buy a set of rings without all of the rigmarole involved, right? ✉ Ceremony is ceremony but as long as the relationship strength is there, all of that is, well. ✉ Superfluous.