No, darling, some men rend and tear because they do not care. It is worse in its lack of deliberateness. Seeing takes effort. Listening takes care. Love takes presence. Apathy is worse than destruction, and it comes with its own mad ends. Love, when it is only sentiment and nothing more, is cruelty.
Inevitable things are always inevitable. All spotlights go out in the end. I recommend never living for one.