I don't have preferences, actually. I am accustomed to having to attend assorted masses and visiting the poor, so it's not common for me to have so much time to myself to fill as I'd choose. I'd be happy to have you there for both, and whatever else you'd like to attend.
I am most assuredly amenable to this! Spoil her as you like -- you are her father, and such is your right.
I bought her a dress. It was in the window of a shop and I could not resist. It's a gorgeous little thing.