And that girl has a part of my heart. If you're toying with her, intentionally or not, that's going to be a problem.
If this were random barely legal girl, I'd punch you in the face for even suggesting it. I'm still not even sure I think it's a good idea anyway, but I know Lydia. I know how mature she is and I personally believe she deserves a whole hell of a lot more than she's been dealt. And I would and have done anything in the world for her. So you make sure you're not playing with her if you haven't figured out what you want, alright? Because I care about you too, and I'm not interested in something like this becoming a huge shitstorm. Griping is fine, but if you start picking at her for her choices in dates, that's going to go nowhere but bad.