If you're able to stand upright and pretend to be fine through out the Order meeting I will. If not I'm selling you out, for your own good of course.
Pansy was told the other day that's how I know.
As for Lupin yes. If there's a chance to convince the Lestranges I really am just an icon it should be taken. Besides he's her second with the school, its logical he could also be her second for the Order as well.